This is one of the must frustrating things when dealing with guys. What ever happened to have having meaningless hookups? I feel like I should specify “hookups” when I say this I mean making out with some one, simply kissing a person. It seems like around here if you kiss a guy all the sudden you are theirs and it’s so annoying. Lil Kim and Christina Aguilera couldn’t have said it better “If the guy have three girls then he's a man he can either give her some head, or sex her raw, if the girl do the same, then she's a whore.” Guys do the exact same thing that we like to do they just think its slutty as soon as a girl does it. The reason this is so annoying is because I feel like every time I meet a guy it will be so fun at the start and then all the sudden after a week BAM they think we are dating. Then suddenly I feel like I have all these rules and that every time I go out I have to be at his damn hip. Ughh sorry but you don’t own me, let me do what I want, if I like you…. then I’m not going to try and be with other guys….I will be with you. If I don’t like you….I promise you will get the hint and if you don’t…..that’s why I don’t like you. My girlfriends and I talk about this all the time and get so annoyed thinking; since when did the guys become the girl in the situation?? We are not relationship kind of girls…does that makes us sluts…no…we have our boundaries and respect ourselves but it doesn’t mean we can’t go out and flirt and have a good time. So unless we have shown a specific interest in having a relationship with you….save the flowers, we feel awkward with them.